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Women in despair, men can never grow up
Today, most men over the age of twenty are in some intermediate state between adolescence and responsible self-reliance age when a family.
Where are the real men? - Ask the young women. Photo: PhotoXPress
Not long ago, the average American in the third decade passed almost all the major stages of maturation: getting a diploma, sought financial independence, marriage and becoming a father. Today, the majority of young men over the age of twenty are in some intermediate state between adolescence and age of responsible self-reliance. This predvzroslaya life has many benefits, especially for people with higher education. But it's time to announce that long obviously legions of frustrated young women: this life is not the best way affects men, wrote in an article for The Wall Street Journal Haymovits Kay (Kay S. Hymowitz), researcher at the Manhattan Institute.
In the article, she outlined the basic ideas of his new book «Manning Up: How the Rise of Women Has Turned Men Into Boys», which was released on March 1 in the publishing house Basic Books.
It is no exaggeration to say that a large number of independently living unmarried young men and women who have sufficient income to make even hindered chores in the kitchen - a completely new phenomenon in the development of society. Yes, this is nothing new in Western history that young people are not in a hurry to marry, putting it a step closer to 25 years, or even later, yes, more than a century unmarried office worker and bachelor lawyers work independently and find yourself a pastime in the cities. But their numbers and financial resources have always been relatively small.
Today predvzroslye - is another matter, it is a large-scale socio-demographic phenomenon.
The change consists in a radical reversal in the gender hierarchy. Among the predvzroslyh 'championship for women. They are more graduates of higher education institutions (among Americans aged 25 years Bachelor's degree are 34% women and 27% men), they have a higher GPA. According to the majority of teachers, they are more self-confident and determined.
Because of these qualities women under 30 were more likely to go to graduate school or graduate and achieve success at work. In some cities, they even earn more than their male peers.
Where are the real men? - Ask the young women. Among their peers, they are often greeted infantile father's sons, clunky computer geeks or grubby slackers.
Where are these adults? It can be assumed that the whole point of trying 24-year-old graduates continue free life as a student, at the expense of parental generosity. But the reasons are much deeper. Since the 1980s, the economic benefits of higher education (University Prize) began to rise sharply.
Between 1960 and 2000 the percentage of young people who enter the university or graduate school, has more than doubled. In the knowledge economy good jobs accrue to those who have a diploma. And to receive it takes years.
Another reason for the long haul growing - more and more complex and confusing job market. Over the past decades as a result of economic growth and the digital revolution, the higher sector of the labor market - is, in fact, the battle for the most creative, interesting and prestigious positions. Those areas that attract ambitious young men and women, often require several years of education, training, transitions from one position to another - either horizontally or vertically of the professional hierarchy, moving from one city to another in the United States and abroad.
The knowledge economy allows young people to consider the work as something personal. They are interested not only in employment, but in building a career in a field where it is possible to realize their talents and express their most important aspirations. They believe that shapes their career in the personal sense. For today's predvzroslyh question Who do you work for? Is almost synonymous with the question who are you? '.
And the family is rarely included in the picture, commented Haymovits.
Predvzroslost can be compared to the adolescent period, which derives its definition in the mid-20th century, when American teenagers sent from the field and enterprises in high school. For a long time the offspring of poor immigrant families from a young age went to work because the family could not do without additional manpower and additional income. But the country is quite rich, and there were opportunities to improve the level of education of the population and labor force.
Teenagers quickly became a marketing and cultural phenomenon. And formed a special psychological profile of this age group.
Psychologist Erik Erikson described adolescence as an intermediate stage between childhood and adulthood characterized by role confusion, emotional instability, and intrapersonal conflicts.
Like adolescents in the 20th century, today predvzroslym is expected maturity, says Haymovits. Marketing and culture contribute to the spread predvzroslosti as a style of life. Just like teenagers, this class social phenomenon related to a more or less prosperous strata.
Those who do not receive higher education, are unable to compete for more interesting jobs in the knowledge economy.
However, in one important aspect predvzroslye differ from adolescents. They write their biography, and from scratch. Sociologists use the term life script to describe the main events dictated by society and stages of life.
While these scenarios are different in different cultures, in our biological nature of a deeply rooted archetype. The emergence of adolescence did not change the major chapters of the American scenario. Adults are still considered to be the ones who are responsible for solving the main problems of the economy and culture.
For women, the main thing was education of the future generation of men - the protection and material support of his wife and children. Those who perform this scenario, getting older, time-keepers of public order, as long as do not grow old, says Haymovits.
Unlike teenagers predvzroslye do not know what is expected in the next stage. For them, marriage, birth and parenting may be in various forms, or even be missed. In 1970, among Americans aged 25-29 have never been married was only 16%, this proportion is as high today as much as 55%. In the U.S., the average age at first marriage is approaching 30 years (in many European countries, this strap has long passed).
It is no wonder that so many young Americans are experiencing quarter life crisis, a time of depression and anxiety over the future.
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Discussion Topics for lack of weight gain
-Not eating Enough // How we can solve this problem
-Your workouts //
1:14 Not eating enough
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2:03 Tip #1 // Start eating your favorite foods.
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4:07 Tip #2 // Eat dessert
Best time to do so is actually during post workout. The goal is to put on weight and not worry about eating right during your gain phase. when you have finally reached a weight where you feel you are too big. Then cut down a bit on the dessert at that time.
5:34 Tip #3 // Set an alarm for eating
This will create an habit of constant eating. Eat even if your not hungry, the more you eat the bigger you get. But if you get too big, you have reached your goal.
7:56 Tip #4 // Workout!
Also you need to be hitting the gym while consuming all of these calorie. If you don't you will gain mostly fat.
-Train 4 times a week, don't worry about working out everyday. The reason is that your body probably has a very high metabolism so training everyday might not be needed right now.
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